Cheat Sheet to Finding Sexy Boudoir Lingerie

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Boudoir lingerie can be a powerful tool to boost your self-image and confidence. Whether you're prepping for an intimate professional photo shoot or simply want to feel sexy in your own skin, the right lingerie makes all the difference.

Boudoir lingerie isn't just about the clothing; it's about changing how you see yourself, and making you feel empowered. Whether you are diving into a boudoir photo shoot or simply updating your underwear drawer, the right pieces can make you feel invincible.

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Top 10 Boudoir Lingerie Picks

When it comes to boudoir lingerie, the options within Earthly Venus are endless. From luxury to comfort, classic to provocative, there's something for everyone in our exclusive collections. Here are our top 10 picks to help you feel confident and sexy.

  1. Honey Birdette: Luxurious and provocative BDSM inspired lingerie and bondage accessories.

  2. For Love and Lemons: Colorful, girly, flowery, and enchanting designs.

  3. Agent Provocateur: Absolutely gorgeous sets (with a price tag to match). If it’s in your budget, highly recommend.

  4. William Wilde: Sleek, shiny, and sexy latex dresses, lingerie, and accessories.

  5. Dr. Harness: Steamy leather, mesh, and fishnet styles.

  6. Mariemur: Provocative leather and mesh looks.

  7. CXIX: Sporty, sexy pole wear in lots of fun colors.

  8. Fleur du Mal: Frilly, lacy, mesh sets.

  9. What Katie Did: Retro-inspired Lingerie.

  10. Adore Me: Versatile and affordable classic lingerie.

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How to Choose the Perfect Boudoir Lingerie

Finding the right boudoir lingerie can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Here’s a simple guide to help you choose pieces from Earthly Venus that will make you look and feel amazing.

Find Sets that Make You Feel Beautiful

Sounds obvious, but I’m going to say it anyways! All of our bodies are so different, and you deserve to find pieces that compliment your own unique shape, size, and colors.

Get Your Measurements

Walk into a local lingerie boutique and ask them if they can size you for bras. You’ll be able to use these measurements to find the right sizes anywhere you shop.

Don’t Over-Focus on Comfort

While some might say that comfort is key to confidence, I like to say “beauty is pain.”

But genuinely, for a boudoir photoshoot you’ll only be wearing the each look for 5-15 minutes each. So if there’s a set that looks stunning on you that you’d never be able to practically wear elsewhere, your session is the perfect occasion for you to finally embrace it.

Embrace Your Personal Style

Your lingerie should show off your personality and reflect your personal style. Whether you prefer elegant and understated or bold and daring, if it speaks to your soul, go for it!

Don’t Be Afraid to Experiment

Your photoshoot is a great opportunity to try looks, styles, and accessories you’ve maybe been afraid to try before. Play around with looks you wouldn’t normally go for. Ask the people who work at the boutiques what they love. You might find something new you really feel hot in.

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Frequently Asked Questions about Boudoir Lingerie

What Not to Wear to a Boudoir Shoot?

When planning your boudoir shoot, avoid pieces that don’t fit well or make you uncomfortable. Ill-fitting lingerie — especially thigh high tights — can ruin your confidence and the photos. We see ourselves in the wrong set and assume there’s something wrong with our bodies, when actually there’s something wrong with the lingerie!

Stay away from anything too tight. While it can be tempting to go a size down, anything too tight will squeeze your body and push you out.

Oversized un-done looks look amazing on camera, but stay away from getting anything too large if the item is meant to be fitted.

What is Best to Wear for a Boudoir Shoot?

The best pieces to wear for a boudoir shoot are those that make you feel confident and sexy. Most clients wear lingerie sets, but the sky is the limit! I’ve had client’s wear robes, jeans, cosplays, their partner’s t-shirts, or nothing at all.

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You Deserve to Feel Sexy!

At Earthly Venus, we believe in empowering everyone to see and celebrate their own unique beauty. Our boudoir sessions are designed to honor real bodies and individual beauty, helping you to embrace your true self.

Boudoir photography is more than just capturing images; it's about transforming your self-image and boosting your confidence. As Kathryn shared, “I never thought I would feel so confident in my body.” This transformation is what we strive for in every session.

We celebrate real bodies and provide a safe space for you to express your individuality. Whether you're looking to step out of your comfort zone or simply want to celebrate a personal milestone, our sessions are designed to make you feel powerful and beautiful.

Contact us to to hop on a quick phone call to get all your questions answered, no matter where you’re at in your decision making process. Let us help you uncover the beauty and confidence that lies within you. Because you deserve to feel empowered and celebrated every single day.

Haley Snyder, NYC Boudoir Photographer

Hi, I'm Haley, a New York boudoir photographer who has been doing camera work since 2016. I specialize in erotic and bridal boudoir, and love helping baddies like you to feel more confident and beautiful in their own bodies. While the content I create is often steamy, the sets are surprisingly wholesome. That’s because safey, empowerment, and privacy are so important for my client’s to embrace and express their most authentic selves! Each image tell a client’s unique story; let’s create photoshoot that’s as unforgettable as you are. Contact me today to get started.

https://www.earthlyvenus.com
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