Discover Your Seductive Side: How to Be Sexy While Being Yourself

Being the most alluring person in the room is not about working out at wearing nothing; it’s is all about owning who you are with confidence. Let’s talk about how to be sexy while embracing your authentic self.

woman leaning her head back sensually with her eyes closed | How to be Sexy | Photo and article by Earthly Venus
 

Honor Your Desires and Preferences

First things first, let's get real about who you are and what you want. No matter what you find attractive, whether you're into leather, latex, lace, whips, cages, or heels — or something so freaky we can’t list it on here — there's no shame in owning your desires and preferences. Forget about conforming to society's standards and embrace what makes you you! Celebrate your quirks, and flaunt your fetishes, and remember: authenticity is hot.

Black open toed stiletto caught in mesh lingerie | How to be Sexy | Photo and article by Earthly Venus
 

Carry Yourself with Confidence

Now that you've accepted and embraced your sexual self, it's time to wear it with pride! Use your body language to walk with your head held high and own your space. Boldly make eye contact with the people around you. Remember that you are that bitch! And confidence looks absolutely irresistible on you.

woman laying across the ground in hand painted jean boots and orange lingerie | How to be Sexy | Photo and article by Earthly Venus
 

Let Yourself Relax

Does the idea of pretending to be confident have you feeling a little jittery? Don't worry, we've all been there. But here's the key – don’t convince yourself that you don’t know how to be sexy. Take a deep breath in, and a deep breath out, and trust that you know what you’re doing even when you don’t feel like it. Relax. If you do something embarrassing, tell yourself you’re hot enough to get away with doing something that embarrassing. Delulu is the solulu.

Black and white photo of a woman in lingerie with her hand in her hair | How to be Sexy | Photo and article by Earthly Venus
 

Treat Yourself With Love & Respect

Don’t forget to treat yourself with the love and respect you deserve. Take care of your body, get enough sleep, feed yourself well, aet boundaries, prioritize your well-being, and surround yourself with a supportive community that accepts you for who you are – kinks, quirks and all. The way you treat yourself teaches others how you deserve to be treated!

sitting seductively on Moroccan tiles in purple lingerie | How to be Sexy | Photo and article by Earthly Venus
 

Discover Your Hottest Self Through Boudoir

Now that you know how to be sexy, it’s time to celebrate it! If you're itching to take your hot girl attitude to the next level book a free boudoir consultation with me. I’m here to help you celebrate your bad self and see yourself through a whole new lens. You can also download my free Ultimate Guided to Boudoir. It’s packed with tips, tricks, expert advice, and a $100 print credit to spend at your photo shoot.

Haley Snyder, NYC Boudoir Photographer

Hi, I'm Haley, a New York boudoir photographer who has been doing camera work since 2016. I specialize in erotic and bridal boudoir, and love helping baddies like you to feel more confident and beautiful in their own bodies. While the content I create is often steamy, the sets are surprisingly wholesome. That’s because safey, empowerment, and privacy are so important for my client’s to embrace and express their most authentic selves! Each image tell a client’s unique story; let’s create photoshoot that’s as unforgettable as you are. Contact me today to get started.

https://www.earthlyvenus.com
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