Being the most alluring person in the room is not about working out at wearing nothing; it’s is all about owning who you are with confidence. Let’s talk about how to be sexy while embracing your authentic self.

Honor Your Desires and Preferences

First things first, let's get real about who you are and what you want. No matter what you find attractive, whether you're into leather, latex, lace, whips, cages, or heels — or something so freaky we can’t list it on here — there's no shame in owning your desires and preferences. Forget about conforming to society's standards and embrace what makes you you! Celebrate your quirks, and flaunt your fetishes, and remember: authenticity is hot.

Carry Yourself with Confidence

Now that you've accepted and embraced your sexual self, it's time to wear it with pride! Use your body language to walk with your head held high and own your space. Boldly make eye contact with the people around you. Remember that you are that bitch! And confidence looks absolutely irresistible on you.

Let Yourself Relax

Does the idea of pretending to be confident have you feeling a little jittery? Don't worry, we've all been there. But here's the key – don’t convince yourself that you don’t know how to be sexy. Take a deep breath in, and a deep breath out, and trust that you know what you’re doing even when you don’t feel like it. Relax. If you do something embarrassing, tell yourself you’re hot enough to get away with doing something that embarrassing. Delulu is the solulu.

Treat Yourself With Love & Respect

Don’t forget to treat yourself with the love and respect you deserve. Take care of your body, get enough sleep, feed yourself well, aet boundaries, prioritize your well-being, and surround yourself with a supportive community that accepts you for who you are – kinks, quirks and all. The way you treat yourself teaches others how you deserve to be treated!

Discover Your Hottest Self Through Boudoir

Now that you know how to be sexy, it’s time to celebrate it! If you're itching to take your hot girl attitude to the next level book a free boudoir consultation with me. I’m here to help you celebrate your bad self and see yourself through a whole new lens. You can also download my free Ultimate Guided to Boudoir. It’s packed with tips, tricks, expert advice, and a $100 print credit to spend at your photo shoot.