Overwhelmed or unsure about how to prepare for a boudoir shoot in NYC? I’ve created this comprehensive guide to help you navigate every step of the process, from shopping to self-care, with ease and confidence.

Commit to Embracing Confidence and Comfort

Before diving into the logistics of how to prepare for a boudoir shoot, remember that lingering insecurities about our bodies and are sensualities are common — even though they suck! As you’re shopping and prepping, you might notice some negative self-thoughts pop up. Whatever triggered it, I give you permission to blame EVERYTHING but yourself. So when you think that negative self-thought, just acknowledge it, remember it doesn’t serve you, and choose to blame the lingerie, the lighting, the makeup — whatever it is that has got you down! At this photoshoot we’re only keeping room for things that make you feel stunning.

Planning Ahead for Success

The key to preparing for a successful boudoir shoot in NYC lies in meticulous planning and preparation. When you book your session, look for dates at least two months out, ensuring that you have ample time to relax and enjoy the experience. Any prep that’s a part of your normal beauty routine should be up-kept, but don’t feel like you need to do anything you wouldn’t normally do! Think about how you might prepare yourself for going to a big event like a wedding, for example. When would you get your highlights refreshed? When would you get your wax done?

Remember to take advantage of our Style Consultation as well. Your session is a collaborative experience, and we want to know your vision, preferences, and any specific concerns you may have. At Earthly Venus, we’ll also handle booking your photoshoot location and your hair & makeup artist.

Curating Your Wardrobe and Look

Selecting your wardrobe is an essential aspect how to prepare for a boudoir shoot. Your wardrobe pieces should make you feel beautiful, and allow you to express your unique style and personality. Take the time to carefully select lingerie, shoes, and accessories that make you feel confident, empowered, and sexy! Here are some articles that might help you pick amazing outfits:

Take care of your skin

Prioritize your skin's health by establishing a pre-shoot skincare routine and avoiding any last-minute beauty experiments. Drink plenty of water (4-6 glasses a day) starting weeks before your photoshoot to be absolutely glowing from the inside out. And be sure to wear plenty of moisturizer and sunscreen daily — your skin will thank you!

One Week Before Your Session

As your boudoir shoot approaches, focus on self-care and relaxation to ensure you look and feel your best on the big day. Treat yourself to a manicure or pedicure for flawless hands and feet — they’ll be seen in your photos! The night before your session be sure to moisturize and exfoliate your skin. This will help your makeup lay flawlessly on your face. Remember: avoid any drastic changes to your beauty routine at this point in time since you won’t have time to un-do any accidental disasters; stick to trusted products and treatments to prevent any unexpected surprises.

Prepare a Go-Bag for Your Photoshoot

Be sure to pack a go-bag with all the essentials and things you'll need to feel comfortable and confident on the day of your photoshoot. Set out loose-fitting clothing for traveling to your session, and steam/iron and hang all of your lingerie sets and accessories. Don't forget to bring along any special props or sentimental items that will add a personal touch to your photoshoot — especially your wedding ring, if applicable. Thoughtful preparation is key to a stress-free experience.

Seeking Additional Support and Guidance

By following these simple steps you’ll be well on your way to a confidence boosting session that truly embraces your authentic, beautiful self. Remember that you’re not alone; I’m here to help you every step of the way, and you can always reach out if you have any more questions in regards to how to prepare for a boudoir shoot in NYC.

If you haven’t booked your session yet, I would love to work with you! Contact me to get started on your boudoir journey and to get answers to any questions you might have, or download my Ultimate Guide to Boudoir to learn all about what the boudoir process looks like from beginning to end, and to earn a $100 credit to spend at your photoshoot.